Do you have the audacity to be audacious?
Do you desire to be bold, courageous, or even fearless?
If your answer is yes, then what’s stopping you? If you answer no, then maybe this article isn’t for you. If you hesitated or didn’t know the answer, then read on.
So, what do I mean by ‘being audacious’?
I mean to be bold. Be brave and/or daring. Step outside of your comfort zone. Be unrestrained by the conventional way. Purposefully learn something that’s outside of your norm. Gain a new or broader perspective. Be adventurous and inquisitive. Step up and do something different!
Why should you become audacious? Here are three good reasons.
- You’re sleepwalking. Most of us have been here for either a brief time or perhaps are still stuck here in lifeisboringsville. You do the same things every day – day in and day out – over and over. It’s repetitious…and you’re tired of it! It’s time to wake up! It’s time to jump the rut and do something different with your life!
- You’re living scared. Fear is normal. We’re all scared from time to time – but being scared and being too petrified to move or act are two very different things. If we allow our fear and worry to imprison us, we may never break free and may never meet our true potential. But if we can find the courage and strength, we may be able to overcome our self-imposed prison to find new amazing success and achievement.
- You want something more or different. Ahhh….one of my favorites. You know that you have more in you to give. More in you to share. More in you to accomplish. This reason is the one that focuses on the positive of untapped potential – and quite honestly has the greatest opportunity for success – if only we take a leap of faith and step out.
If you find yourself relating to one of the three situations mentioned above, then it’s time for you to take a step into audaciousness.
Don’t know how? Try one (or all) of these:
- Set one Big Hairy Audacious Goal (BHAG – as author Jim Collins puts it) with a time limit. Don’t set some little wimpy arbitrary goal. Really put something specific out there that is just out of reach, but realistic. Something that will challenge you to learn, grow, stretch, and evolve.
- Push past your comfort zone. If you know yourself well enough to know your boundaries, start poking beyond those. If you can only run a 12-minute mile – push yourself to hit a 10- minute mile.
- Create accountability. Invite likeminded others to hold you accountable. Share your goals and desires. Tell them what you’re doing and have them help you succeed.
- Meet one new person a week. Proactively introduce yourself to others. Choose people that you wouldn’t normally meet and/or create a list of people you want to meet (and seek them out without becoming a stalker). Be proactive in growing your relationships. But don’t just develop acquaintances. Develop a real relationship where you invest time in learning about others. What drives them? What experiences have they had? Why do they do what they do?
- Ask more questions than you make statements. This is one of my favorites. Use open ended questions (who, what, when, where, why, and how). Listen more, learn more.
These are just a few things you can do to jump start your new audacious life! What others can you think of?
As a personal goal, I want to step out even more this next year. I want to be more bold in the way that I live life, work, play and relate to others. I won’t settle for less.
You only get one turn on this earth. Live your life everyday! Make it the best! Make a difference!
I will be audacious! What about you?